I Don't Bi It

Straight men doing gay porn? Curious I was when I first heard this term. Straight men fucking each other in an XXX DVD, made for a gay porn audience. I'm confused. Men who fornicate with other men are gay or bi, am I not correct in this interpretation?

I first turned to Merriam-Webster Online for a clarification of what gay and bisexual means, literally. I found the following descriptions:

Main Entry: ¹gay
Pronunciation: 'gA
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Anglo-French gai, of Germanic origin; akin to Old High German gAhi quick, sudden
1 a : happily excited : MERRY <in a gay mood> b : keenly alive and exuberant : having or inducing high spirits <a bird's gay spring song>
2 a : BRIGHT, LIVELY <gay sunny meadows> b : brilliant in color
3 : given to social pleasures; also : LICENTIOUS
4 a : HOMOSEXUAL <gay men> b : of, relating to, or used by homosexuals <the gay rights movement> <a gay bar>
synonym see LIVELY
- gay adverb
- gayáness noun

Main Entry: ²gay
Function: noun
: HOMOSEXUAL; especially : a homosexual male

Main Entry: Gay
Pronunciation: 'gA
Function: biographical name
John 1685-1732 English poet & dramatist

Main Entry: Gay-Lusásac
Pronunciation: 'gA-l&-'sak
Function: biographical name
Joseph-Louis 1778-1850 French chemist & physicist

Ah, I should have known its etymology would have something to do with French. Those French sex divas not only own the number one sex language but they invented the word for the next sexual revolution. Berets off to them! Oi oi!

I did not find this helped me much in understanding this porn video trend of straight men fucking each other "only for money." They "are just acting"???? Since I didn't feel satisfied with my online dictionary answers, I went to what I thought were excellent sources to get to the meat of things... a gay male friend of mine and a straight male friend of mine. Interesting enough, they both gave me the same exact answer. "men who fuck other men are gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy." It was a bottom line answer from both friends. No hesitation and they went on to discuss how men who perform sexual acts on other men, whether it is in front of a camera for money or in the privacy of their bedrooms, they are gay or bi at the least.

Have you ever interviewed a straight man and asked him if he would have sex on screen for money with other men? They almost get pissed when you ask, like they are insulted. Now I know that acting is an art and people play parts all the time that aren't them. But that's acting. And please, let's not kid ourselves when we mention acting skills with porn. You don't have to have any. This is pay for sex. If you are not attracted to it, you won't do it.

My conclusion is that straight men who act out in porn films with other men are GAY or BI. Stop kidding yourselves. And do you really know how you sound when you say, "I only have sex with men in films." Have some self respect and claim your own identity. It's o.k. to say you are bi if you have sex with men in straight or gay porn and still enjoy sex with women. You are someone who sees the beauty in all individuals and are unique. You shouldn't degrade yourself and say you only have sex with men in porn because you are paid. That equates you to a prostitute. As a straight female, I would rather you admit you fuck men on screen because you want and you can't believe you get paid for it, and you have sex with women because it's an intimacy you don't want to share on screen. Or what ever your reason is. Just tell us. We can take it and you must know by now... we will find out. Honesty is the best policy. If you can begin by being honest with yourself, then you can open up to your friends and loved ones and be honest with them. No harm done, no misunderstandings, and no secrets to keep.